What we did in June

Some moments from June:

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My pretty roses are in bloom!

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For birthday Sunday we went to a park by Kyle and Stephanie's house.  They brought their 4-wheeler and Jaaromy gave Brigham a ride on it.  He absolutely loved it and wanted to keep going.

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For Scouts, they were doing an obstacle course and their Scout leader sent me a picture of Jonathan climbing over the wall.  Nice work!  I'm so glad when they give hard things a try.

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Brigham is so much better at pretend play.  He loves to play with his space shuttle.  I mostly took this picture because he was also wearing his "I love Space" shirt.  Also, because there really wasn't much going on this month I figured I might as well include it.

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So that was June.  Pretty low key.  Brigham was done with school but Jonathan and I had to keep going.  I managed to combine the last two weeks  into one so that helped.  I was really ready for summer.  Summer brought another challenge however, because Jaaromy and I decided to start the divorce process.  Lots of complex emotions around that decision.

Bring on Summer!

MAY-hem - get it!

So, May just might be the second busiest month of the year after December.  Maybe even more than December, I'll have to check my calendar.  So many fun things going on.  Here are a few:

My dad's choir had a fundraiser dinner and silent auction and my mom couldn't go so I went with him.  There was a jazz band and dancing.  I wish I knew how to dance like some of the couples there.  It was so fun to watch.

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I'm not sure why this is the only picture I have of Nathaniel's concert.  They did a great job.  They played a Star Wars medley and had fun light strips on their bows that looked like light sabers.  It was cool.

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 Brigham's school had a dance concert.  I'm so glad I went, it was really cute.  Each grade did a dance from another country and Brigham's grade did one from Ireland and had a lot of jumping which was perfect for him.

His teacher tried to get him to look at me when their class sat back down but he wouldn't do it.  Oh well.

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Jonathan had his band concert the next day.  He did a good job, I could hear him playing since the group was so small and he sounded the best.  I got him all dressed up with a tie and everything and he wouldn't take of his jacket.  Oh well.

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Brigham's school class went on a field trip to the Children's Museum and she was nice enough to send me this picture.  He had a lot of fun.  He is also very fond of wearing his jacket.

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My parents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.  We started the evening with sealings at the Salt Lake temple.  That was so neat to be there with my family performing work for other families.  Some families had so many children that we had to seal them half at a time.  It was so beautiful.  After that we went to the Lion House where we had a catered dinner waiting for us.  The food was so good and it was fun to talk to everyone.  Each of my parents' children took a moment to share a memory about Mom and Dad and growing up.  It was fun to hear everyone's memories.  There were some that I had forgotten.

 Heather was so sweet to put together a little scrapbook of the last 50 years.  I took this picture while everyone was looking at it.  She did a good job, the pictures were awesome.

 We posed for pictures at the end and a few of the waiters were nice enough to take lots of pictures of us.

 Just the siblings and Mom and Dad.

Mom and Dad.  Aren't they cute!  It was a wonderful evening.  I love my family.

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Memorial Day is always a favorite for me. With three grandparents passing this year, we had to change our routine a little.

 First we went to Redwood Estates for Grandma and Grandpa Zierse on Sunday.

 And Grandpa Zierse's parents, whom I've never met but are buried here too.

 Then we went over to Wasatch Lawn to see Grandma and Grandpa Hand.  They don't have a headstone yet.  It's only been a few weeks.

 It was windy and a little rainy but it was a good visit.

Brigham likes to smile for me so taking pictures of him is fun.

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On Monday we went to Provo with my family.  It was a beautiful day.

 Afterwards we had a picnic at the park and had delicious food.  I even remembered to bring chairs and blankets this time!

And then Jonathan and Brigham played at the park.  Good times!

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That was our May, busy but fun!  Brigham had his last day of school, Nathaniel had one more week, and Jonathan and I had three more weeks to go because we were waiting on the curriculum at the beginning of the year and at the end of the first term.  Almost summer!

Our April

Here are a few moments from April:

After I got Brigham on the bus, I noticed that my daffodils looked so pretty with the dew on them so I took a picture with my phone.

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Suki looked so cute just sitting there in the car that I tried to take her picture.  She kept looking away as if she didn't want me to take it and when she finally looked, she didn't look happy about it.

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We had so many funerals that I decided not to bring the boys to Grandpa Hand's funeral.  It was a nice funeral but I didn't think to take a picture.  The granddaughters sang Adam Ondi Ahman, one of Grandpa's favorite hymns.  I wasn't super familiar with it but by the end I had fallen in love with it.  At the cemetery, Grandpa had a military tribute.  That was the first funeral I've been to with one.  It was so neat.  It was nice to not have to worry about the boys but we did bring them to the luncheon.

 We were still on the way home from the cemetery and had called the boys to tell them to get ready.  Jonathan texted me to show me that he was ready to go.

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I thought this car looked kind of evil.  Like the Grinch.

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It was one of those years where Easter is really early but we still can't get together until the second Sunday of April for our Easter Egg Hunt at Grandma Bonnie's.

 It's a fun tradition and I don't mind having it late at all.

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I finally got to try out my Christmas present.  We took my drone for a test flight and it was super fun!  Brigham loved it and called it a helicopter.  The picture is fuzzy because I realized after we were done that I left the protective film covering the camera lens.  Maybe next time.

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Suki, back from the groomers!  I like having the bow on her collar, so much easier to get off.

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My orchestra performed The Secret Garden in concert and Ben Weatherstaff was played by Marvin Payne who was the dad in Saturday's Warrior.  Daniel was super excited to get a picture with him because his wife's family are huge fans.  I took the picture for them because no one else's phone could handle the low lighting.  It was a super fun concert, by the way.

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So that was our April.  It was a while ago now so I don't remember it as much.  I'm thankful for pictures like these to remind me.  Overall, it was less busy than March, so that was nice.  But it was not without it's low points, one being that Jaaromy and I decided to separate.  We didn't make the decision lightly, it's just what needed to happen.  The school year is almost over so we still have a lot to look forward to.

March Madness

I know that title is horribly overused, but the end of March really was quite crazy.  Brigham was sick for days, Nathaniel had a concert, and we had two funerals within a week of each other.  Thankfully, Spring break helped us recover from all the madness.  So, here is our March.

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We have this tree in the backyard that's tall and skinny and kind of in the way.  It's useless as a shade tree because it's so narrow, but for two weeks of the year it has beautiful yellow blossoms.  Well, Jaaromy noticed that it had started leaning.  Rather than wait to see where and when it would fall, we decided to cut it down.

 It's not huge so it wasn't too difficult.

 As you can see, there aren't a lot of roots holding it in place.  We wiggled it around like a loose tooth until we could see where it was hanging on.

Turns out there was just one root holding it up.  Also, this picture is misleading.  It looks like a fairly thick root but right after this point along the root it got really thin, maybe an inch and a half to two inches.  So, I'm glad we cut it down before the wind knocked it down.

Here's a picture of it's blossoms, for old times sake.

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Brigham sure looks cool with his roll up sunglasses someone got from the eye doctor.

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I got tickets to Aida last Fall and we finally got to go.  This was our first live opera and it was super fun.

Our seats weren't too bad, either.

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So, we got an email saying that we might not have rehearsal because our conductor had to go out of town on short notice.  Well, a substitute was found, but once tempted with a night off, my basses had decided that staying home sounded nice.  Not me!

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Okay, I know this is weird but...

This is how I like to eat mini M&M's.  It usually doesn't end up this evenly split, that's why I had to take a picture.  It was so close to perfect!

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 My Grandma Harding passed away on the 15th.  She was 102 and one of my very favorite people.  I'm so excited for her to see her family.  She outlasted all her siblings by several years, it must have been a wonderful reunion.  The morning of her funeral was super snowy where we lived but was just a little rainy in Provo.  The service was beautiful.

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The same day as my grandma's funeral was the neighborhood caucus.  It was super fun.  I had to take the minutes of the meeting because our precinct chair and vice-chair had both unaffiliated themselves so it was left to the secretary to run the meeting.  She did a great job even though she was nervous.  It was fun to vote for the presidential candidate since we usually wait until the primary.  That's lame, doing it now feels like it might actually mean something.  Good times!

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Jaaromy's Grandma Hand died on the 22nd, the same day as my grandma's funeral.  She started going downhill at the same time my grandma did and I was worried they would go at the same time.  They were close but it was doable.  It was a beautiful service as well.  We are well acquainted with death, it seems.  We were able to visit before she died and I'm so glad we did.

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We almost didn't color eggs this year.  It had been such a busy couple of weeks that I was just exhausted and I didn't realize how close Easter had come and I wasn't prepared.  I decided to make a quick trip to the store for the rest of the Easter things I needed on Saturday night.  I'm glad I did, it worked out pretty well.

Just a boring regular egg dyeing kit.  Perfect for us.

This egg cracked in the boiling process and I was just going to save it for deviled eggs but I decided it looked like it was sticking out it's tongue so I had to make the most of it.

Jonathan made a Toon Link egg and was very proud of it.

It looks just like him!

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My parents invited us over for dinner Sunday night so we had our Easter lesson for FHE the next day.  That works out pretty well for us and we do it pretty much every year.

 We had our special Easter Egg Hunt inside because it was too wet outside.

Then we opened up each egg and read the scripture that went along with the item inside.  The last egg is empty and I love that.

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So that was March.  Very unexpectedly busy.  Nathaniel's concert was the same week as the funerals.  Also, the YM/YW activity for that week was an etiquette dinner that the boys had to wear their church clothes for.  Then we had the viewing for Grandma Hand on Friday and the funeral on Saturday.  So, Nathaniel had to wear nice clothes every day that week except for Thursday.  Brigham was sick almost that whole week.  Thankfully, he was better by the second funeral.  Grandpa Hand passed away yesterday so we will have another funeral coming up soon in April.  One of my nephews noticed that Grandma and Grandpa Zierse died in March too.  I guess that's the best time to go.

I wonder what else April will bring.